Connecting Naturally with Numbers

Math is natural: Fibonacci Numbers

Today, I’d like to introduce Christina Pilkington one of my favorite bloggers on the subject of interest-led learning.  Since my own kids are so much older now, I wanted Christina to share with you from the perspective of a mom with younger kids and how she helps them learn basic skills through interest-led learning.  I hope you enjoy this guest post today!  And now Christina begins…

While I was scrolling through my home page on Facebook a few months ago, I came across a picture that was posted by someone close to our family. The picture showed a piece of paper with rows of square boxes. In each box, a little girl-who is five years old- had written the number 3 over and over again in the first row of squares. Then she had written the number 4 over and over again in the row of squares underneath the first row. And so on, and so on.

She’s in Kindergarten and this was her homework. She was doing something a teacher told her she had to complete.

Today, I played a game of Mancala with my two five (almost six!) year olds.  It’s a wonderful game; it originated in Africa and some people think it’s the oldest game in history.  We played it for over an hour and a half and learned strategy, counting, and keeping score.

My kids begged me to keep playing the game. In fact whenever we play games with numbers, I usually have to find a way to distract them or else they’ll want to play for hours and hours.

Now, if you have a child who wants to practice writing numbers for fun, go for it!

But the important thing to keep in mind is that schools have it all backwards. While they may bring in some games and manipulatives, schools usually require small children, often starting in Kindergarten, to learn math in very abstract ways.

They want them to write numbers and fill out drill worksheets, adding and subtracting numbers without having a solid concrete

understanding of how they work. Most kids are not developmentally ready to really think in abstract terms until they are at least 11 or 12.

That’s not to say that kids can’t comprehend math concepts before then. You’d be amazed at what kids can understand.

But without having a solid idea of how numbers relate to each other, how numbers and logic works in real-life situations, than everything a child does on paper- all those workbooks that many adults think are so important – those are really just parlor tricks they’re performing. They may be able to get A’s on a test, but they cannot transfer that paper math to real situations.

Many children also have a difficult time with handwriting until they are closer to 9 or 10. That’s not to say they can’t write at all, but they’re usually not comfortable or proficient at writing for long periods of time.

Source: Brandi Korte

And most of the math done in school involves a lot of writing. Instead of having fun with numbers, playing lots of games, and using numbers to solve real problems, kids are forced to spend long periods of time writing instead. They grow to associate writing – something that may be very frustrating for kids- with math. And so they grow up thinking they hate math!

So what can you do if you want your young child to grow up, if not loving math, than not loathing it either?

Here are a few ways to introduce math concepts into your home naturally in the context of daily life.

  1. Do lots of cooking. You’ve probably heard this tip before, but younger children can learn an incredible amount of math just from cooking and baking with you every week. There’s counting, subtracting, temperatures, fractions and dividing. Cooking and baking also connects math with art, science and the practical skill of learning how to make food for a family.
  2. Bring in as many games as you can into your kids lives. Here are a few of my favorites for kids in the age range of 5-8: Sum Swamp Addition and Subtraction Game, Sequence for Kids, Money Bags a Coin Value Game, ThinkFun Math Dice, Jr.  & Blokus.
  3. Watch some DVDs about numbers. Here’s some fun ones you might want to watch: Donald in Math Magic Land, Schoolhouse Rock: Multiplication, Leap Frog: Math Adventure to the MoonLeapFrog: Math Circus, &  Leap Frog: Numbers Ahoy.
  4. Let your kids see you using numbers every day to solve problems. Talk out loud when you’re trying to solve a problem. You might say, “This can of corn costs more than the other can of corn, but if I look at the price per ounce, I’m actually getting a better deal by buying the more expensive can because I can get more for my money. Stores can be pretty tricky that way sometimes.” Or, “I wonder if it would be a better deal to buy the generic brand of this bread or to buy this other brand of bread using one of my coupons?”
  5. Look for patterns and talk about them. You can find patterns in songs you sing, pictures you draw, changes in the seasons. Math and science are often inseparable. Do lots of fun experiments that involve patterns. Go to art museums and talk about the patterns and numbers you find there.  Take them on nature walks and point out all the beauty of math in nature, like the Fibonacci numbers commonly found in flowers and pine cones.

The key is to take the time to slow down and involve your kids when you use math concepts naturally in your life. Most young children find numbers fascinating. It’s our job as parents to introduce our kids to math ideas and skills in ways that show them how useful, fun and interesting the world of numbers can be.

Thank you so much for sharing this with my readers, Christina!  These are wonderful ideas for incorporating math in a natural way that will keep our kids interested in the beauty of math and eager for more in the years ahead!

What are your favorite ways to use numbers in real life with your kids?  We’d love to hear from you!

Christina and her twins

Christina Pilkington is the creator of the website Interest-Led Learning. She lives a life of passion, adventures and connections with her husband and 5 year old boy/girl twins. She’s written an e-book called A Thrift Store Curriculum which you can get for free when you sign up for her newsletter. You can also connect with her at Twitter and Facebook.

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14 Comments » for Connecting Naturally with Numbers
  1. Krista says:

    Well, I have to say that I love, love, love finding patterns in nature and Fibonacci numbers are my favorite! Mostly we enjoy math through playing games and art. My oldest now loves geometry and enjoys Key To workbooks – a very gentle workbook series. I find that kids who had trouble learning basic math excel at higher level math, especially when not pressured in those formative years. My husband was the same way, still can hardly add, but is brilliant at formulas and all kinds of higher level math. That’s what calculators were meant for! Thanks for sharing, Christina!

    • You’re welcome! I’ve seen a fun documentary on Fibonacci numbers on Netflix that I would love to watch with my kids when they get a little older. Also, I’ve been hearing a lot lately about the Key to workbooks. I think when children do a lot of hands-on, real life math, when they get older they tend to find those type of workbooks really fun to do. They’re almost like doing puzzle-type books for them.

  2. Gentry says:

    Great post! We love math games too, but I would love to have a once a week baking/cooking time with my kids. Thanks for the encouragement!

    • Krista says:

      Once a week baking/cooking is fun and when they get older they will put together the meal for you! Ahhh…nice side bonus, math and a night off from cooking (eventually). Hee hee…

    • You’re welcome! I love cooking with the kids. I think cooking is the very best way to introduce fractions – it’s such a hands-on, visual way. Also, we’ve done a lot of yeast experiments with bread which has been wonderful for understanding the way chemicals and heat work together.

  3. Monica says:

    My kids are really young, 2 & 4, but they love numbers too. They love the leapfrog math DVD on Netflix. I have also been letting them have a small bowl of coins to play with. I create some obstacle, my legs blocking their path or similar, then require a “toll” to pass. They are learning counting, money value, and they love it. Intresting connection to math and art is that they also love making things with the coins, snakes, trains, houses etc.
    Love your ideas about the games and other DVDs. Also there are a lot of good, free iPhone apps for kids and numbers.

    • Krista says:

      I can picture that “toll” game, Monica – super cute!

    • Hi, Monica! Nice to see you here, too!

      If you have any really good iPhone aps to share, please do :) I just got my iPhone a few months ago and love it! Alexa loves the math games on PBS kids.org.

      I really like your toll game, too. I can really see my kids liking that a lot, especially Jared. I love all the connections between math, history, science and art.

  4. Jeanne says:

    Hi, Krista and Christina.

    As a mom of 4 ‘all grown up’ kids, I would definitely homeschool differently if I could .. by doing ‘fun’ math activities instead of always sticking with the textbook. You are giving great advice!

    Jeanne

    • Krista says:

      Thanks for your encouragement, Jeanne! And yet, they all “turn out” don’t they, almost no matter what we do!

    • Thanks! For me, I think it helped a lot being a teacher for years before having my own kids and learning with them at home. I was able to see first hand every day how sticking to textbooks and worksheets sucked out any enjoyment that kids could have had with numbers.

  5. Susan says:

    I love this Christina! You have completely described my own feelings about math learning. Honestly, I wish my girls had never gone to public school for the couple of years they did, simply because of the approach to math there. It’s been hard to undo some of the damage done. I take a very relaxed and natural approach to math with the girls now…probably some homeschool moms would be quite appalled ;)

    • I think they would feel the same way about my family, too! It’s not so bad since my kids are still young, but I can imagine the type of flack I’ll get in another five years:)

      But I look at my own relationship with math and I want so much more for my kids. I want them to feel comfortable with math, numbers, patterns and logic. I want them to see it as a fun, useful tool to have instead of something to be hated and dreaded.

      • Susan says:

        I know, I feel the same way about math. When I was a kid, I hated it, and now that I’m older I have such a respect for it…I wanted my girls to skip the hatred and dread and just see the good and the fun and how interesting it is!

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